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  • AUTUMN CRUZ / acruz@sacbee.com

    Gene Hardin, the creator of The Lisa Project talks with volunteer Carlos Romero. Volunteers help staff the multiroom exhibit to help visitors process what they have seen.

  • AUTUMN CRUZ / acruz@sacbee.com

    One room dives into the most secretive kind of child abuse: sexual abuse.

  • AUTUMN CRUZ / acruz@sacbee.com

    Another room shows the experience of a little boy who gets great grades but whose stressed-out mother abuses him.

  • AUTUMN CRUZ / acruz@sacbee.com

    The story of a well-to-do teen is dramatized in the final room of The Lisa Project. Abused by her father, she turns to drugs and gets involved with an abusive boyfriend.

  • AUTUMN CRUZ / acruz@sacbee.com

    A depiction of a home where drugs are cooked, the pantry is empty and a child’s bedding consists of nothing but a blanket.

More Information

  • Want to know more about the signs and symptoms of child abuse? Helpguide.org, a nonprofit resource, provides this information on child abuse and neglect:

    Myth: Only bad people abuse their children.

    Fact: It's not always so cut and dried. Not all abusers intentionally harm their children, and many have been victims of abuse themselves and don't know a different way to parent. Others may have mental health or substance-abuse issues.

    Myth: Child abuse doesn't happen in "good" families.

    Fact: Child abuse crosses all economic, racial and cultural lines. Those who "have it all" on the outside may be hiding a different situation behind closed doors.
  • Emotional: Includes constant belittling, shaming, name-calling, yelling, bullying, limited physical contact (no hugs or affection).

    Warning signs: Excessive withdrawal, fear or anxiety of doing something wrong, extremes in behavior, lack of attachment to parent or caregiver, acts inappropriately adult (such as taking on parenting other children) or extremely infantile (rocking, tantrums).

    Neglect: Includes failing to provide basic needs like food, clothing, hygiene or supervision. Not always easy to spot.

    Warning signs: Ill-fitting or filthy clothes, consistently bad hygiene, untreated illnesses, often left alone, frequently late or absent from school.

    Physical abuse: Involves physical harm to the child. Can result from deliberate attempt to hurt a child, discipline, physical punishment.

    Warning signs include: Frequent injuries or unexplained welts or bruises, always on "alert," injuries have a pattern such as marks from belt, child shies away from touch.

    Sexual abuse: Includes exposing a child to sexual situations or material that is sexually abusive, whether or not touching is involved. Warning sings include: Trouble walking or sitting, displaying knowledge or interest in sexual acts inappropriate to the child's age, an STD or pregnancy (especially under 14 years old), child runs away from home.

    Why don't people report child abuse? Here are some reasons often given and arguments for reporting child abuse.

    "I don't want to interfere in someone else's family life." Even more children may be placed at risk. Help break the cycle.

    "They will know I am the one who called." The abuser can't find out who made the report because it's anonymous.

    • Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: (800) 422-4453

    • Immediate emergency: 911

    • Sacramento County Child Protective Services: (916) 875-5437
  • When: 4 to 8 p.m. Thursdays and Fridays; noon to 8 p.m. Saturdays and 1 to 5 p.m. Sundays (except Easter, April 24)

    Where: St. Rose of Lima Park, Seventh and K streets, Sacramento

    Information: www.TheLisaProject.org or (916) 244-1900

    Presented by: California Department of Social Services Office of Child Abuse Prevention, California Children's Trust Fund, Downtown Sacramento Partnership, The Child Abuse Prevention Center, Court Appointed Special Advocates for Children of Sacramento County and Vive! Cocina Mexicana and Ultra Lounge
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Mom.me: Let the children speak

Published: Tuesday, Apr. 12, 2011 - 12:00 am | Page 1D
Last Modified: Saturday, Oct. 29, 2011 - 10:15 am

Michael is a smart fifth-grader who brings home straight A's.

His report cards are proudly taped to the wall of the small living room, right near pictures he's drawn and framed homilies professing a house filled with love.

Details paint a grimmer picture, however.

The bottle of Seagram's whiskey peeking out from a blanket discarded on the futon. The note on the report card from the teacher asking Michael's mother to come talk.

Michael's voice wavers as he describes life with his abusive mother. She never lets Michael forget that she works three jobs to support them. She hatefully tells him she should have had an abortion.

"She hardly ever smiles," he'll say.

You can go to hear Michael's gut-wrenching story - and those of a handful of other children whose abuse is played out in The Lisa Project, a multimedia exhibit meant to expose people to the realities of child abuse and trigger a desire to help prevent it.

The free exhibit - on display throughout April at St. Rose of Lima Park at Seventh and K streets - is constructed as a series of rooms, each one depicting a different child and the abuse he or she suffers. Cues from an iPod guide each visitor through the exhibit.

"We're asking you to figuratively take a child by the hand and let them tell you their story," said Gene Hardin, the project's director.

The exhibit differs starkly from such prevention efforts as public service announcements or poster campaigns, said Regan Overholt, a program officer for First 5 Yolo who recently went through The Lisa Project.

"Being in those staged scenarios makes it much more real and allows you to really understand the environments in which these situations occur," she said. "This is just riveting in its presentation."

Because of the disturbing nature of the content, children under 13 years old are not given the audio devices if they visit the exhibit, and counselors are stationed at the end to talk to visitors who may need them.

The children's stories are real - culled from public records, making them ethically permissible to use. Names have been changed to protect identities.

"Even though the stories sound very specific to the children, they are not unusual stories," said Lindy Turner-Hardin, executive director of the San Joaquin County Child Abuse Prevention Council, the nonprofit behind the project. "They are duplicated in every county and multiple times in every county."

The nature of the abuse presented, however, is in the minority when it comes to the typical cases that come to the attention of Child Protective Services, said Ross Thompson, a developmental psychologist at the University of California, Davis, who works on child abuse issues.

More typical are cases of neglect, he said - children who aren't going to school, getting medical care or eating properly or regularly.

Rates of child abuse have been on the decline over the past five to 10 years, thanks to public awareness efforts, but the impact of economic deprivation is going up, he said.

While neglect is a part of the abuse suffered by one of the subjects in the exhibit, it's not the focus of the project, Turner-Hardin said.

The stark scenarios presented could prompt people to start thinking about neglect, she said.

The mission is to "get people to empathize with these children because then it compels them to act," Turner-Hardin said.

"We want people to hear the voices of these children because they are crying out for help - we're just not hearing them."

And once you do, they are voices you will long remember.

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