Re "Final care a concern of childless boomers" (Page A1, Nov. 10): The article was squarely on point. At this very moment, we are helping a 96-year-old neighbor who broke her hip. Although she lives in a lovely retirement community, the vast majority of her friends are her age, so they can't be there for her. Our support, advocacy and visits have been crucial.
I've also observed a similar situation with my own 86-year-old mother, who just went through her own serious health crisis. She's been very wise; by being active and involved in activities in the community, she has created a support network of younger friends, who backed us up with visits, meals, helping to get her to the doctor, etc. Even with great advance planning, good medical care and family, it takes a community to care for ourselves in our later years. I've been taking notes.
-- Shireen Miles, Carmichael
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