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October 20, 2013 12:00 AM

Carolyn Hax: When to break up without hurting the kids too much?

DEAR CAROLYN: Is there an age at which divorce causes more or less damage to children? My husband and I have grown apart and live like friendly roommates. I’m very unhappy, but I think the kids perceive our home as warm and secure.

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