I left the bar and began to walk home.
He feels bad, but says it means nothing. He does not seem as contrite as I feel like he should be, making it worse.
A few days ago, I asked him to remove the 100-plus pictures of her on his Facebook page and put one of me up. They have been broken up for quite some time.
He put one of me up but didn’t delete the pictures of her. He has since deleted them, but it feels like it is too late.
Some of my friends think this happens all the time and I should just get over it. Others think it clearly shows that in the back of his mind he still considers her his girlfriend.
She has been a point of contention in our relationship for a while.
Although he was initially sorry, hours later he fought with me about it. I feel like he should not only not be fighting with me, but also making some sort of gesture to show me how much I mean to him. A cheap card or flowers would suffice.
What should I do?
Or marry a divorced guy and, every time he accidentally uses his ex-wife’s name, buy yourself fabulous shoes.
Obviously I think your “get over it” friends are wiser than the others, but, well, if only that were all there was to it.
His denying it, your stomping off in a huff, his later fighting you, your photo counting, and the whole idea of “cheap card or flowers” as proof of devotion just give the advice lobe of my brain a throbbing pain.
During that time, what do you do? Like each other. If you “feel” that part “should” be better, then why are you sticking around?