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Remember what that first pregnancy was like? The excitement, the anticipation, the fear?

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Though her oldest daughter is 9, the memories are still vivid for cartoonist Terri Libenson, who has funneled some of her experiences - coupled with creative license of course - into a five-week series flashback for her comic strip "The Pajama Diaries."

The series, which launches today in the comic strip (you can find the strip in The Bee's Fun & Games section), chronicles protagonist Jill Kaplan's first pregnancy, from the sonogram to the delivery room.

I recently interviewed Libenson, who has two daughters, about the series from her home in Cleveland, Ohio. Here is some of our conversation.

Q: Why did you decide to do a flashback now?

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A: It wasn't something that I consciously decided. It was sparked by a strip that I did for Mother's Day, (which) involved a flashback in the delivery room. Because the strip is in a diary format, it allows going forward and back ... Why not just spice things up a little?

Q: What kind of trials will Jill be remembering?

A: It's really an overview of when she first realizes she gets pregnant with her first child to the first delivery - nothing too specific or traumatic, but there is the idea of her kind of having reservations about her job situation and how that's going to change and just about being a good mom. It something that a lot of women face nowadays.

Q: Is some of this inspired by your life?

A: To an extent, but some of it is creative license. When I was pregnant, it was a little different situation. But I was playing with the idea of working part-time. I worked full-time for American Greetings back then. Right now, I work for them one day a week.

Q: How do you balance children and work?

A: It's gotten easier. It was pretty difficult when I first started the comic strip because I was balancing that job, which was so new to me at the time, with the American Greetings job. The kids were much smaller. My youngest was 2 or 3 years old. I didn't get much sleep ... I'm working long hours but it's not as bad as when the strip first launched.

Q: Any advice for working moms?

A: Personally, I think just taking things one step at a time is a good idea. It's hard for me to say that because I tend to want to do 20 things at once.

Q: Can you give us a peek at what we might see Jill go through during the series?

A: Jill finds out that two of her best friends get pregnant at the exact same time. One strip that kind of stands out in my mind that I think is kinda funny is when Jill and her friends are out shopping for breast pumps.

What was your first pregnancy like? Post a comment here.

Do you remember how you told friends and family you were pregnant? Read my blog post on sharing the big news with loved ones.

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