Say it ain’t so, dear Larry bird

It’s strange to see an empty cage every time I go into the kitchen. For 28 years, our African ringneck parakeet, Larry, greeted the day with a cheery “Good morning!” But a few weeks ago, when my husband woke up and went to prepare the dogs’ breakfast, there was only silence.

Larry was dead at the bottom of his cage.

He seemed fine the previous evening when I put him up for the night, but we consoled ourselves with the thought that he had lived the typical span of years for a ringneck. Still, he had been with us the longest of any of our animals, and his absence cast a pall over the house. I called his veterinary clinic to pass on the news. I knew the staff would be devastated. Larry was a popular boarder when we were away on trips.

One time I went to pick him up, and a collective “Aww” of disappointment emanated from the back room when the receptionist called to have him brought up front. His veterinarian, Dr. Kristi Krause, returned my call a little while later to offer condolences.

“Larry was an awesome bird,” she said. That sentiment was echoed by former Bird Talk magazine editor Kathleen Etchepare Samuelson. “I always loved his beautiful bright-green feathers and happy personality,” she said. We noted his demise on Facebook, of course. Larry met lots of people over the years and charmed them all with his conversation: “Larry’s a good bird,” “Larry’s a pretty bird,” “Whatcha doin’?” “I love you!” “Gimme a kiss” (followed by smacking sounds).

He was also famous for meowing with such authenticity that it often prompted people to look around for a cat. He received nearly 80 tributes from friends who had either known him in person or admired him in photos.

Our most amusing memory of Larry is one told to us secondhand. Our neighbors, who had a caique named Pogo, were caring for Larry at their house while we were on a trip. One night, they were watching a movie with both birds, and Larry kept talking over the dialogue. Finally, Pogo turned to him and said, “Shh.” Larry shut up. It was hard to know how to memorialize Larry. Burning a candle didn’t seem right, since we avoided burning them during his life to ensure that the fumes didn’t kill him. He didn’t have a collar and tags that we could put in a keepsake box.

His veterinarian offered to have us bring him in to make a toe-print memento, but we prefer photos, and we have several nice ones of him. Other ideas I’ve seen include writing about the animal, purchasing a children’s book on dealing with the loss of a pet and donating it to a local library or school with a label inside dedicating the book to the pet’s memory, framing a favorite picture of the animal or having a professional portrait made from a photo, making a donation to a shelter or rescue group in the pet’s memory and planting a living memorial such as a bush, tree or flower.

We’ve done several of those things for various pets over the years and will choose from among them for Larry. The University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine suggests sharing photos and stories of a deceased pet, and that’s what our Facebook notification ended up being. And it seems appropriate as I write this that National Pet Memorial Day is coming up on Sept. 13. We will think of Larry fondly on that day and many others. Goodnight, Larry. We’ll miss you, good bird.

The buzz

After the recent death of Tiffany Two at age 27, a new cat holds the Guinness World Record for oldest living cat. The feline geezer is named Corduroy, and he’s 26 years old. Corduroy, born Aug. 1, 1989, lives with Ashley Reed Okura, who acquired him as a kitten when she was 7 years old. Corduroy still has a ways to go before he beats the record of the oldest cat ever known: Creme Puff, who lived 38 years (1967-2005). The average cat lives 15 years.

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