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Parents @ Play: Escaping boredom and solving crimes – together

Escape the Room-type games are all the rage, and for good reasons: They're challenging, fun, often educational, usually require cooperation and teamwork, and are all-around wonderful activities to do with family and friends. This week we review several new entries into this growing segment. We've enjoyed them, and know that you will too.

Family

Steve & Mia: Her husband's a cheater

Q: I really need help deciding what to do. I have learned that my husband has a little girl the same age as our daughter. He goes to see her sometimes and takes presents. I love him and want to keep my marriage together, but the thought of him being at the home of the woman who slept with him kills me. I get sick to my stomach whenever he's over there with that lying whore. She knew he was married. I never thought I could feel so much hatred for another human being. We are working on our relationship. We have been together eight years and married for five years. This is so hard. I need help.

Family

Ask Mr. Dad: Putting together a co-parenting plan

Dear Mr. Dad: My husband and I are getting divorced. Unfortunately, we're so angry at each other that we can no longer even be in the same room together. Fortunately, despite our anger, we still understand how important each of us is to our children – and how important our children are to each of us. Do you think we'll be able to come up with a parenting plan that works for everyone? And if so, how do we do that?

Family

Ex-etiquette: Understanding shared custody

My husband and I share custody of his two young daughters. I also have kids from my prior relationship – one is in middle school and the other in high school. My husband's daughters see their mother every other weekend, so she doesn't have much influence on them, but each time they come home, they are terrible. It takes me days to straighten them out. What's good ex-etiquette?

Family

Living with Children: To spank, or, not to – here we go again

Four sentences into her Wall Street Journal article on recent research into spanking ("Spanking for Misbehavior? It Causes More!" December 17, 2017), the author, Susan Pinker, makes two grievous errors: first, she says that children under 7 cannot master their emotions; second, she says a fair amount of misbehavior on the part of a young child distinguishes him from a robot.

Living

How to teach preschoolers the difference between fact and fiction

Little kids love playing make-believe. And there's no reason to harsh their mellow. But there comes a time when you have to explain the difference between fact and fiction. Maybe an older sibling put a scary notion in their head. Maybe they're trying to get away with a fib. Or maybe they caught wind of a tragedy in the news and you have to explain that it won't hurt them. For some kids, fantasy-reality confusion can lead to nighttime fears and anxiety.

Technology

Moms Gear: Heated foot massager relaxes and warms the soles

Feet tired after a long day on the go? Then give those feet a massage using the HoMedics Shiatsu Select Foot Massager with Heat, available online through Bed, Bath & Beyond and other retailers. Of course, anyone in the family who does sports, walks or runs on a regular basis or has peripheral neuropathy may find their feet feel better after use of this massager or a similar model.

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